Sunday, July 21, 2013

Not in my guilt list....

I realized mummies beat themselves up so much. We feel guilty all the time. I'm guilty for so much things from trivial to complex parenting issues. Hmmm making a list about the opposite, free me from this crippling guilt. I want to be a joyful and confident mummy and I'm going to give Grace to myself and people around me! What isn't on my guilt list as a Mumster.... 

1. Being extremely silly infront of my kids 2. Cooking their favorite meals 
3. Spending on short holidays at sentosa 4. Teaching Val life and study skills 
5. Baking with kids even though it is extremely messy and unpredictable 
6. Hugging and kissing my children a zillion times 
7. Reading and making up my own stories  
8. Praying , memorizing verses and singing praises 
9. Having three kiddos!! But I'm stopping at that number! 
10. Apologizing to my kiddos when I was wrong and when i had my meltdowns.... 11. Not giving up when I had no help when things were rough in the beginning ...

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